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This might sound foolishly obvious, but Jason Momoa wasn’t always the titan he currently is. Having built himself large enough to follow up Arnold in a Conan film that no one saw, he has reached an incredible level of fitness so I did some research into how he accomplished this.

He claims to have never lifted weights prior to the role of Conan – If this is true, he, at the very least, set up the foundation for growth.

As a young actor he was certainly in athletic shape, which seems quite common in a lot of bigger guys. Their struggle is generally not getting lean but rather packing on size. They need to eat big. But guys like me who do that just get fat.

I spent years going through a cycle like this: spend 6 months “bulking” then 6 months cutting – I would get lean, but my muscle mass was not significantly improved. For that reason I spent several years chasing the elusive “recomp” – the attempt to get both lean and muscular at the same time. The result for the most part was sitting in a perpetual state of physical mediocrity – at least by my standards.

This is why I decided to try something radical – a new approach to get big and lean. No not roids. It is actually based on a study that was brought to my attention – where quails had weights attached to their wings for 28 days resulted in an increase of the actual number of muscle fibres as well as muscle size and length. It stands to reason that if you increase the number of muscle cells available, you will get bigger – and then by hypertrophying them you will get bigger still. Yes this was done with birds, and the truth is that there does not seem to be conclusive consensus as to whether this was due to the muscles being stretched, or the nearly continuous load placed on them – which was began at 10% of their body weight and progressed to 35%. To my knowledge, the diet was not disclosed.

My attempt meant a combination of high frequency training with weighted stretching incorporated. I wanted to focus on a specific muscle group for this style of training. I chose to do chest because that meant I would also get additional work on my delts and triceps.

From a dietary perspective the goal was to have enough material to feed my muscles, but few enough calories that I would burn fat. This meant a moderate deficits with protein and fat sources making up the bulk of my diet with vegetables added in for their vitamins, minerals and fibre.

I knew this would push my recovery to a new extent so to help with the adaptation I first made sure to supplement with adaptogens, and used cold showers after chest training. The cold shower also has a calorie burning affect – albeit relatively small.

So my results? Well still being early in the process I can’t tell you yet, but once I have results I will post them (so if you’re interested make sure to follow).

However I think Momoa has mastered the inner game of being an Alpha – at least that’s how he carries his public persona. Look at him in interviews and you see a guy casually leaning back, owning his surroundings, very light-hearted and easygoing. What’s refreshing to me about his persona is that he is embracing his masculinity in a day and age when manliness is being vilified by the politically correct types. It is a lot harder than it sounds to be a chivalrous man when you are attacked for it. But when something virtuous becomes rare in society I think it is natural to admire those who demonstrate it.

Last time was all about preparing mentally and physically for training so now we will talk about getting the most out of the session in the moment.


There are a few times in your life where you make landmark improvements in your life and I’m going to share many of those with you here. Briefly, the best information I learned about healthy fat loss while strengthening muscle came from Tom Venuto’s Burn the fat, Feed the Muscle; Ben Pakulski was the one who taught me the most about exercise form and muscle growth with his MI40 program. As far as mental focus and drive, I credit Anders Ericsson’s book Peak alongside Carol Dweck’s Mindset.


The term focus is one that I love because it is all about being in the present. It puts your mind squarely on the task at hand. But I find that focus is something that needs cultivation. It means secluding yourself from outside distractions. It is something that gets better with persistent practice.

Focus is having laser vision on your current activity while pushing towards your desired future. It is connecting your mind to your body. It is he single moment when you what to quit a set but you tell yourself that this rep is the one that will determine whether you progress.

I’ve said before that progress is not easy, and this is one area that is definitely not easy. Nor is it intuitive. Our bodies and minds are designed for survival, meaning that when things get difficult our brain tells us that we are entering a danger zone and that’s when we quit.

That instinct is clearly important, but being aware of it, and knowing when you can push past it is where we begin to grow. In this way that inclination to quit can actually serve you extremely well, as it will guide you ever closer to the edge of your comfort zone.

The more you practice reaching this point and pushing past it, the better you get at doing it naturally – which can impact your life both inside and outside of the gym.

The pursuit of getting to this point where we not only face challenges head on, but in fact enjoy such opportunities to progress can be understood using what Carol Dweck calls the “growth mindset”. When we learn to crave growth we also learn to love the challenge.


With the right mindset and the right teaching, people are capable of a lot more than we think.” – Carol Dweck

Ingredients for progress:

  • Specific performance goal
  • Focus
  • Meaningful positive feedback

As I suggested in part 1, short-term performance goals take into account your current limitations and give you a target to aim for that is slightly beyond your current ability. This should be slightly ambitious but not unrealistically so.

The term “progressive overload” is probably familiar to most who have entrenched themselves to some degree in physical activity – even more common is the concept of the “comfort zone”.

But a term that may not familiar to you is the “zone of proximal development”, an intriguing concept initially developed by psychologist Lev Vygotsky.

While the intentions of this concept seem to be geared towards childhood development, I’ve found it to be applicable to training psychology as well. The zone of proximal development represents the happy medium between pushing upwards enough to progress while not so hard as to inflict injury or discouragement. This is where I always strive to be – on a constant but gradual incline.

This idea can also be conceptualized by thinking of your comfort zone as something that is continuing to grow as you progress.

It may help to remind yourself that any upward climb is – by definition – difficult, while also maintaining the humility to understand our limitations.

In order to ensure progress you should keep a training log. This will help you know week to week the amount of weight to use and also help track your progress.

Additionally, while I suggested having an open mind and being creative with your program creation, there is also value to keeping a program somewhat consistent over a number of weeks. This helps you know that you are advancing in either weight or reps.

As an aside, I find humility itself to be a key component of improvement of ANY kind. In fact I have heard it said that humility is the prerequisite to wisdom.

Feedback can come in many forms, it could be from progress photos or a coach, or just a friend commenting on your progress. Whatever the source, it seems to be a key component to maintaining long term progress. Instagram has become a breeding ground for “attention seekers” but while its commonplace to shun such people, the reality is that getting positive responses is actually something we need.

The Ingredients of Muscle Growth

If we think of muscle building as hypertrophy, there is little better resource than the work of Brad Shoenfeld, who determined that the primary factors leading to muscle growth are: muscle damage, muscle tension and metabolic stress (aka cell swelling).

Brad suggests periodizing these factors. Personally I’ve found that simply being aware of them can help understand the true goal of the training session.

In the protocol I suggest below all of these factors come into play, and by being mindful of them you will access their true power.


The “contrast principle” or “perception effect” suggests that our mind perceives things in comparison to one another. So how can this be used to improve physical training?

Instead of training with a constant weight for a constant number of sets, try reverse pyramid training. This method suggests starting with the heaviest weight and dropping the weights while increasing reps for successive sets.

I’ve seen time after time that implementing this techniques has resulted in rapid strength and muscle gains.

Now for a word of caution…. if you are too ambitious on your first/heaviest set you risk injury (yes this is coming from experience). A set or two of lightweight warm ups to mentally practice the form will help prevent against this, and make sure that the incremental increase from your last session is moderate. In actuality it’s the second set where true growth often occurs as this is where you are typically lifting above your previous ability.


In order for progress to be true there has to be a controlled variable. This is one reason why training to “failure” is preferred when doing resistance training.

This means that you are physically unable to perform any more repetitions while maintaining proper form. That point cannot be overstated, because doing a low number of reps with a relatively light weight won’t accomplish much (outside of rehabilitation purposes).

It should be noted that at different parts of the range of motion you have greater strength. If you have ever seen someone squatting or bench pressing with chains this is the reasoning behind this. In the case of bench press, as you push the bar farther from your chest you are stronger and therefore the chains give you more resistance to work against.

However in many gyms using chains isn’t practical, so one way I’ve found to be more practical for getting to muscle failure is using “top partials” – which is doing a few reps at the top – or more accurately – strongest few inches – of the range of motion at the end of each set.


Density refers to the amount of “work” done within a set amount of time. From my experience it is an amazing way – if not the most effective – to progress physically as well as aesthetically.

In my Superhero training program I suggested working on three things: power, size and speed.

Using density as a measurement can help improve all of these.

The beauty is that you can progress in a number of ways almost indefinitely because the amount of density is essentially:

(sets) x (reps) x (load) / time

So you can progress by:

  1. lifting heavier weights
  2. doing more reps
  3. doing it in less time – usually done by decreasing rest time.
  4. A strategic combination of the above three.

One of the best ways to do this type of training is using reciprocal inhibition (RI), which means pairing up antagonizing my muscle groups. This is my favourite RI split:

  • Day 1: chest + back (rowing)
  • Day 2: quads + hams
  • Day 3: shoulders + back (lats)
  • Day 4: biceps + triceps

And then I will work low back and abs into the routing intermittently.

Try doing that split while using a rep scheme something like this:

20 reps, 15 reps, 6 reps, 8 reps, 10 reps, 6 reps, 8 reps, 15 reps.

Then each week decrease the rest time between supersets from about 60 sec to 15 seconds. When the rest becomes that low you can go back to 60 seconds but with heavier weights 😊

Related: Man’s Search for Muscle: Part 1, Part 2, Part 3

It is no secret that you can’t continue on the same program indefinitely and have continual results – certainly not on a linear trajectory of improvement. Some claim that you need “muscle confusion” or other such new stimuli to continue to progress, but I believe it to be more of a psychological condition.

After a while we get bored of doing the same thing over and over and it is no longer fun, but a chore. When something becomes work and not play it loses the appeal. Don’t get me wrong, there is great value to be found in disciplining yourself to do work ESPECIALLY when you don’t want to – in fact this is one of the things Anders Ericcson considers to be a trait of top performers in all fields.

So contrary to what we tend to seek as beings who – ironically put a great deal of effort into seeking the path of least resistance – we ought to be doing the opposite. However while our training should be challenging it should also have a level of enjoyment.

As an aside, it was in the process of learning how to optimize exercise form so that a relatively light weight would seem harder that I began making noticeable improvements in building muscle.

And so it seems many of us are constantly on the lookout for a brand new training program or diet, which has the outward appearance of bypassing the problem of boredom. But as I mentioned earlier, many programs set you up for failure from the beginning.

Virtually every marketable fitness program available sells itself by offering something new and exciting. This is exactly why the industry thrives. Purchasing such a program can provide a short-term novelty factor that motivates people to go all in. There is also something to be said for sacrificing your money for something important to you.

However what these programs don’t tell you is that what they are offering is typically no better than any other method out there, just simply different enough to sound interesting. It is the clever combination of being both familiar yet new that helps these salespeople market their product to unwitting clients (victims).

The other hidden secret in these program is something that only recently occurred to me… Consider the people marketing these programs. They make a living off of being in good shape. This is no secret. So how do they keep such high levels of physicality?

I’ve asked myself this question many times over the years and the answer that seemed obvious was that they are motivated by having to market themselves. In other words their motivation is monetary. But it turns out that is not the case at all.

The real reason the elite fitness professionals maintain such high levels year-round: Because they create their own programs.

Trust me, they don’t want you to know this because it will put them out of business!!!

Why is this? This has to do with the discovery that humans are more engaged when they feel that they are doing something creative.

Engaging and exercising our creative abilities is not something to be thought of lightly. Milton Erickson is a fantastic example of that. He was interested in the idea of using hypnotherapy to help his clients but the research up to that point was not promising. Trying to think of new ways to approach the concept he came up with a form of trance where he joined the patient in trance and managed to create extremely effective, lasting results in a relatively short amount of time… in a sense that’s very similar to what we want to accomplish as “physique artists”. Erickson is a shining example of creativity by the way. In addition to his hypnotherapy methods, he created several unconventional and revolutionary methods of helping people – and more than likely just as many unsuccessful experiments – which led his successors to create the highly regarded Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP).

So here’s an idea for you… instead of jumping onto a new training program try this:

Get a blank notebook. At the top of the page write three things: the date, the body part (or parts) you want to train, then – recalling part 1 – wrote down your purpose.

Then fill out the page with the movements you do, number of reps and weight as appropriate. This will allow you to be creative within your session while working the pre/planned parts.

There is actually further evidence of the effectiveness of this method in studies on what had been coined “autoregulated periodization”, although it tends to give credit to “listening” to your body.

In PART 3, we discuss pre-workout.


Man’s Search for Muscle: Part 1

Over the last decade or so, I’ve had numerous innovative exercise-related theories spring to mind in the midst of intense training sessions. Those seem to be the moments in which my brain seems the most attuned to creative training and diet philosophy. Within recent years various aspects of human psychology have worked their way into my mind as well, and this blog series is what I consider to be the marriage of these ideas to the best of my current ability.

I’ve achieved my greatest physique improvements during this time, but I’ve also suffered my greatest setbacks. I came to realize that my biggest mental barrier between knowing what to do and actually doing it has been motivation, and the temporary fix seemed to be hopping from one training program over to another.

The source of the problem was not actually a problem at all, but rather success itself. Having a happy relationship and being comfortable with my level of fitness seemed to take a devastating toll on my drive. My physique, as well as my motivation to improve it hit an all-time low and not only was I unaware of what was happening, I was frustrated by my seeming inability to get the fire back. I hated what I saw in the mirror but felt I was too far gone to do anything about it. My energy and passion for activity were non-existent, and no amount of program hopping helped. Sure I would go to the gym a couple times per week but the training was half-hearted and my nutrition was not kept in check.

Compounding the issue, it is quite shocking to look back and realize that many well-intentioned fitness programs are specifically designed for short-term success followed by long-term lulls.

So I went on an intense journey to try to understand the very nature of self-motivation, with the ultimate goal of trying to harness its power. What I discovered was that much of what is driven into our way of thinking are the exact things that make it difficult to do the things that will make us happy.

Ironically, your goals can be the very thing getting in your way.

I can hear you saying “huh?”

If you’re considering baling on me now I can’t blame you. Every single fitness program out there seems to start off by going on about the importance of goal-setting, so it stands to reason that we are conditioned to put high value on goals. And I’m not saying all goals are always bad, in fact some will be necessary to progress – rather what I’m saying is they need to be handled with care.

It has been shown that result-oriented (or outcome) goals can – if not properly handled – not only inhibit motivation, but lead to unethical behavior, and since I have attacked this from a standpoint of maintaining ethical behaviour and integrity this concept caught my attention.

Again, you may be scratching your head, but just consider the transformation challenge for a moment… how many people do you suppose, desperate to win the challenge, or even simply meet their goals, resorted to using performance enhancing drugs? While I have never gone to those lengths I would be lying if I tried to suggest that the temptations weren’t there.

There are several other examples of this in the real world, where companies or individuals are so driven to meet a specific goal that they have to sacrifice quality or workmanship to accomplish it.

So how do we combat this?

First of all, I think that it should be pointed out that it is virtually impossible to go into a fitness program of any kind without some sort of overarching goal such as improving body composition, gaining strength, building muscle etc, but what we should attempt to focus on day-in and day-out is action-oriented goals rather than result-oriented goals.

it should also be noted that result-oriented goals can serve the function of getting you over a mental hurdle, but beyond that we are better off using action-oriented goals than results-oriented goals. These serve the function of driving us to DO the things that will serve us best keeping integrity intact.

A results-oriented goal would be: lose five pounds this week Where as an action-oriented goals might be: go to the gym every day.

Action-oriented (or process) goals can even be momentary, such as: complete THIS rep.

I also like to think of these as “progress goals”, which takes into account your current capabilities in a very specific area and are intended to help you push those limits.

I find action oriented goals work well for dietary adherence as well.

Like most things in life there are exceptions to every rule, and most sports psychologists insist upon having clear, measurable goals. You can do so but the key is to make sure you put integrity above achievement. Do not “win at all costs” or the cost will be our soul. This is why I now prefer to think in terms of “purpose” or life meaning.


The first thing you want to start out with is a PURPOSE. This replaces the traditional “goal”. Nietzsche made the observation “he who has a why to live for can bear almost any how” – in other words, plant firmly in your mind the reason you are doing this.

A purpose might be as noble as lowering your blood pressure or as superficial as getting a six pack. What’s important is that it is important to you. The stronger your understanding of WHY this is important to you, and the stronger it connects to your personal values, the better it will be, because when you are working towards something that aligns with your deepest values failure does not exist.

That’s probably an easy point to gloss over, but I want to emphasize that even when you don’t hit your goals or make the progress you want… hell, even if you regress, the act of striving to accomplish something can provide amazing feedback as to what works and what doesn’t.

Other examples of a purpose could involve: building strength, building muscle size, losing fat, improving health, improving in a specific sport etc.

Your purpose doesn’t have to be limited to one thing, but try to keep it relatively few and non-contradictory. For example you could conceivably get bigger and stronger.

One method for deciding upon your purpose is projecting your mind into the future and think about what you want to have accomplished, and how you got there – including challenges you had to overcome.

While I can’t give you your purpose for obvious reasons, it should be noted that discovering it can be profoundly difficult. One trick I learned was to look at yourself objectively – or to “see yourself as a stranger” in order to begin to learn who you are and what you ought to strive to accel at.

While hunting for my own purpose, both in physical terms and in my broader life, I was drawn to the work of Viktor Frankl, who suggests that we can find out life’s meaning in three ways:

1. through performing deeds

2. experience or encounters

3. through dealing with unavoidable hardships

This can be an amazing guide. I remember being inspired when I met Ben Pakulski and being excited by his training philosophy. Likewise I can attest to the satisfaction that comes following physical work of virtually any kind, and I wholly believe that the demonstration of true character – and learning life’s great lessons happens in the presence of adversity — if only I had the luxury of learning this from a book and not personal experience.

I learned the lesson of growth through hardship fairly young. My house burned down at age eighteen. Our family and pets escape safely while virtually none of our possessions were salvaged. Of course it was devastating, but as we began to rebuild our lives I began to understand the frivolity of material possessions at a much earlier age than most people have the benefit of. Similarly, when my twelve year marriage ended I began to see my character weaknesses for the first time and made a conscious effort to rebuild myself. Of course these were not deliberate acts for the sake of finding meaning, but helped provide the character and insite needed to embark on the search.

What did I come up with through my own search for meaning? Ironically the search itself and the unexpected findings was highly fulfilling – to the extent where I must believe that meaning is my meaning, not only my own but bringing meaning to my interactions with others and hopefully helping bring meaning to the lives of those who desire it.

I’ve been working on this for quite a while, so hopefully there is some value here for you…

I can’t put my finger on exactly what sparked this line of thinking, but I recall having an “aha” moment when comparing muscle function to our conception of superheroes.

Muscles have many evolutionary functions, we can think of tribal cavemen who had to survive harsh elements including competing with their own kind in order to mate.

Specifically these functions are: power, speed and size

These three functions also happen to be what we attribute to modern-day heroes both in real life and to exaggerated extents in fiction.

Size may stand out a little bit because it doesn’t actually seem on the surface to be a true function, but the more we consider it the more we may value it’s purpose. Consider the muscularly huge people we see – they immediately earn respect. Their size also tells others they are not to be messed with. Furthermore their size seems to correlate to their own confidence which compounds their capability.

A case could be made that balance contributes to this as well… but to be perfectly honest I could not think of a way to attribute balance to superheroes. Still combining balance and strength training seems to have a harmonious effect – making such movements as split squats one of my personal favourites of late.

So if your goal is to create a training program that helps achieve that superhero persona, we ought to consider designing the program to develop these three functions.

Let’s look at what seems to develop them individually:


Here we look to the world of power and strength trainers. These people are known to lift tremendous amount of weight, but in small bursts. This is where progressing with heavier weights using small repetitions seems to be most beneficial.


When I think of speed in mere mortals I usually visualize martial artists. Not only do those committed to martial arts tend to be fast, they also tend to have efficient physiques – meaning lean and toned.

But between working full-time, being a full-time single dad and everything else in my busy life, I simply haven’t had the time to commit to martial arts training, never mind the costs that seem to be skyrocketing in proportion to the rising popularity of MMA.

So it has had me looking for other ways to develop speed. Here is what I’ve found…

Explosive concentric (positive) movements appear to help this area, which can fortunately be trained to a certain extent while performing strength training.

Incorporating such things as box jumps and HIIT sprints/upright bike into your routine also seem to be effective. Just look at the massive quads on Olympic sprinters if you want more evidence.


This is an interesting one, because it isn’t strictly about being huge, it’s about LOOKING huge. That is what I’ve heard described as the illusion of size. Basically it amounts to being both muscular and lean enough for the muscularity to look even larger. Basically what we’re looking at training like here is bodybuilding style volume, but we also want to add in a level of metabolic training to use stored fat as fuel. For that I find antagonistic supersets to be best.

So in an attempt to train all these areas within one program, this is what I came up with…

Note: whenever possible use explosive concentrics and controlled negatives

Day 1: Chest and back (rows)

Bench press superset with 1-arm dumbbell rows; 8 sets; reps = 20, 15, 12, 10, 8, 6, 6, 15

Cable crossover superset with seated cable row: 4 sets of 10-12 reps

Incline dumbbell press superset with barbell rows: 4 sets of 6-10 reps

Day 2: Legs

Leg extension superset with lying leg curls; 8 sets; reps = 20, 15, 12, 10, 8, 6, 6, 15

Squats superset with box jumps; 4 sets of 10-12 reps

Bulgarian split squats superset with 1-leg stiff-legged dumbbell deadlifts: 4 sets of 6-10 reps

Day 3: back (lats) and shoulders

Dumbbell shoulder press superset with wide-grip pulldowns; 8 sets; reps = 20, 15, 12, 10, 8, 6, 6, 15

Dumbbell laterals superset with reverse-grip close-grip pulldowns: 4 sets of 10-12 reps

Dumbbell upright rows superset with bent-over dumbbell laterals: 4 sets of 6-10 reps

Day 4: arms

Seated dumbbell curls superset with overhead dumbbell extensions; 8 sets; reps = 20, 15, 12, 10, 8, 6, 6, 15

Dumbbell hammer curls superset with cable press downs: 4 sets of 10-12 reps

Ez curls superset with skull crushers: 4 sets of 6-10 reps

To make this even more effective at least metabolically, try incorporating density something like this:

Week 1: 60 seconds rest between supersets

Week 2: 45 seconds rest between supersets

Week 3: 30 seconds rest between supersets

Week 4: 45 seconds rest between supersets

Week 5: 30 seconds rest between supersets

Week 6: 15seconds rest between supersets

Week 7: 45 seconds rest between supersets


Obviously what you eat will make a huge difference and what I’ve found to be most effective, practical and sustainable in terms of maximizing body composition is the idea of carb backloading.

In short you eat protein, fat and veggies in the early part of the day and save your carbs for the last meal or two.

If this sounds like a weird concept, you are probably used to the notion of eating your carbs early in the day and tapering then off. The mentality behind this was that you would give yourself energy in the early parts of the day and reduce them while your metabolism is slowing down.

While that does seem to make sense on the surface, if we try to think about it from another angle the picture will look a little different.

Reason number one to avoid early carbs: at the start of the day we don’t “need” extra energy. In fact if your body determines it needs extra energy, in the absence of carbs it will take the energy from stored fat – which is what we want!!

Reason number two: our brains send different kind of messages depending on the present food sources. Protein and fats send messages (neurotransmitters) that are energizing and motivating, while carbs tend to be more relaxing and feel-good. This makes it clear that we want the protein and fats early and carbs later on.

Give this puppy a 6-week run and let me know how it works for you!!!


SHAWN: Hey Natalie, you look great. Thank you for taking the time to chat! Seeing your regular posts and progress has been a huge personal inspiration.

NATALIE: Thanks, Shawn! I’m happy we were able to connect- and I’m thrilled that my journey has been inspiring! I hope I can help others along the way so thanks for letting me share my story!

SHAWN: When did you begin transforming your physique and was there anything in your life that prompted you to make change?

NATALIE: I started my transformation in November of 2014. To frame it up, I’m 5’8” and generally feel my best between 130-135lbs. In November of 2014, at my heaviest, I was 175lbs. I’ve been an actor and model since my teen years so aesthetics and a certain degree of fitness have always been important to me & my career.

In October of 2013, I’d suffered a back injury which included herniated disks & annular tears, complicated by scoliosis and degenerative disk disease. After diagnosis, a litany of medications and treatments were trialed (physical therapy, TENS, traction) in addition to medical management. I was significantly impaired- barely able to walk a flight of stairs or roll over in bed without debilitating back spasms. Suffice to say, exercise was an impossibility. I became despondent, comfort ate and fell into complete and utter apathy and the weight began to pile on. It was cyclical: the heavier I got, the less my back was able to carry it, the worse I felt, so the more I ate, and the bigger I got. We see this all the time.

I didn’t like who I saw in the mirror, and worse yet, I didn’t like that I didn’t really care to do anything about it. After many tried and failed protocols, we found one that worked for me which was such a gift but it was also at that same time that I was given my life sentence of being “disabled”… That single word is what sent me running (figuratively then) headlong into a lifestyle change. I mean, I turned my lifestyle on its head! Being told I couldn’t is exactly what I needed to go and prove I could. I decided right then and there that I was “disabled but not unable” (In fact, I use the hashtag from time to time in some of my social media posts).

SHAWN: That’s truly incredible! I think a lot of people can empathize with your fears and dare I say “insecurities”. So what does a typical training and diet day in the life of Natalie look like?

NATALIE: When we struck gold with the protocol, I started with the treadmill. Just walking, no incline… frankly, it barely even got my heart rate up but I was trying to condition my body to this new thing called “motion”. So I would walk for 30 minutes to an hour a day just getting limber and reacquainting my body with movement. With that, I started a gradual reduction in calorie consumption. I then decided to kick it up a notch.

Confession: I had a phobia of the gym (in fact, I STILL do)… and was petrified of the thought of trying to get fit around these super-fits, as I call them, and elite athletes, so I opted for home fitness programs. And I’m so glad I did… in January of 2015, I moved on to heavily modified cardio- every day, for a minimum of 2 hours a day. It was so modified that it was as if I were doing an entirely different workout… and I looked like Robocop (chuckle) with my back brace and my knee braces. It wasn’t easy, in fact, some days I would ugly cry while working out. But I didn’t miss a single day.

My calorie count then was 1200, 80-90oz of water, 3 meals and 2 snacks- one of those meals (usually lunch) being a protein shake. I followed a low-carb eating plan, and my macros were: 25% carb, 40% protein and 35% fat. Today, I’ve graduated to High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT). Me?! HIIT? I can hardly believe it myself. A typical day now (9 months and 45 pounds later) looks a little like this: a 30-45 minute HIIT session in the AM to revv up my metabolism for the entire day, a mid-day 30 minute cardio lunch break and now (I’m most excited about this) a PM cardio hip-hop session (30-50 minutes) with my middle son! My metabolism is firing on all cylinders, so I need to fuel the fitness.

My calories are anywhere from 1700-2400 a day, employing the zig-zag method now to keep my weight static and I follow a standard macro diet. And always the 80-90oz of water a day; I live in the desert so this is a non-negotiable. I am planning on swapping my mid-day cardio with weight training to develop more lean muscle in my “problem areas” to further my progress now that I’ve reached my target weight.

SHAWN: That is a really well-designed diet. How did you come up with that?

NATALIE: Ah yes… I did a lot of research before I started tweaking my eating plan. I wanted to find a macro plan, early on, that would allow my body to burn my stored fat while fueling my metabolism and some lean muscle build. Now since I am still trying to figure out how to maintain my weight with my new regimen (after a lot of trial and error) I determined I needed to eat more to support my level of activity but not gain weight or lose weight (I did both in the beginning). I found that the zig-zag method w a standard macro distribution gave me the energy I need to perform and stay at the same weight with minor hormonal fluctuations of 2-3 lbs. My body hasn’t become complacent and continues to perform at am optimal level.

SHAWN: That sounds pretty much ideal! What have been your biggest obstacles and how have you overcome them?

NATALIE: In the beginning, it was the pain. It was striking the balance between ensuring the continued management of my pain while still making progress. And missing food…I knew that if, for one moment, I felt like I was “missing out”, I’d lose momentum and fall back into that #yolo lifestyle and sabotage myself. Thankfully- chalk it up to vanity, stick-with-it-ness- there was never, ever an “I can’t”. If the routine or exercise seemed too tough, I would watch it 20 times if I had to, in order to come up with an appropriate modification so that I could.

As for food, I LOVE food and knew I had to find a compromise in order to stay motivated. So, I allowed myself cheat days throughout my journey… maybe once a month in the beginning- more now. I love to throw parties and serve up decadent deliciousness… it’s a hobby, and I didn’t want to give it up, so I re-engineer all of my favorite recipes for clean eating variations… so I feel like I am still truly enjoying food- just the right kinds of food in the right portions. My guests still feel like they’re being treated to great food and probably feel better leaving with a belly full of clean eats than fatty treats anyway, right?

SHAWN: Have there been any unexpected lessons you learned along the way?

NATALIE: Tons! Most notably, and probably the most frustrating thing for me, was that it can take your body quite some time to start shedding the weight. I figured since I was working so hard, and eating light the weight would just fall off. I was so wrong. It took my body probably about 6 weeks to figure out what the heck was going on before it started losing the weight. That was disheartening. Another lesson… prepare everyone around you for your journey. They can sabotage you without even knowing it if they don’t understand what you’re going to do and how they can help you. Yes, that one chocolate bar CAN hurt me if it sends me to the convenience store to raid the candy aisle at 11pm because I had a taste. Yes, that one glass of wine can hurt me if I have a few more and it jacks with my sleep and I’m too fatigued to work out as a result. No, I’m not narcissistic and it’s not all about me, but right now I need to focus on my wellness and you need to be prepared to encourage me when I fall down. Having my support system in place in advance would’ve been helpful for me.

SHAWN: How did you measure progress?

NATALIE: The measuring tape and my able to do more. The scale was my ENEMY in the beginning. I would caution against using that as your success barometer. Take before photos and measurements before you get started. The scale can play mean tricks on you by making you think you’re not losing weight or- worse yet- gaining weight when your body might simply be re-appropriating the weight to muscle! Measure, measure, measure. Keep a food diary and capture your progress in photos.

SHAWN: Is there anything that you wished you knew before starting that would’ve made your transformation easier?

NATALIE: Not to expect too much too soon, no matter how radical your regimen is. It’s very easy to become frustrated when things don’t happen fast enough… and with that, you run the risk of giving up. To share more. I wish I had shared more with the world in the beginning… community is a very powerful thing. Since I’ve started sharing my transformation, I’ve been the benefactor of so much support and provided the same- it’s amazing knowing that you’re not the only one fighting the good fight. I wish I had known that not everyone would be supportive of the change, and that my circle of friends would change as a result. I got the “oh, you’re no fun anymore”, “obsessed much?” more times than I can count. The negative chatter was discouraging and made me contemplate if I was doing the right thing. Again, surround yourself with people who support you. If they don’t: get new friends!

SHAWN: How do you define “success”?

NATALIE: In the beginning it was by the inches I lost and the dress sizes going down. Today, it’s less about how I look (although I am very proud!)- it’s about how I feel! My stamina and my ability to do more than I have ever been able to do in my adult life with a degree of ease and finesse (dancing excluded!!). But even more so, it’s no longer shying away from those activities/exercises that I HATE (burpees, lunges, and squats) and being able to push on, do them and feel good about it! Personal satisfaction- the huffing and puffing with a full on flush are the things that get me excited today.

SHAWN: What factors would you say contribute most to being successful?

NATALIE: Perseverance. Do it, even if you don’t feel like it. Especially if you don’t feel like it. Employ the “fake it till you make it” mentality. Behave like an athlete training for a competition and get after it. Soon enough you won’t be faking it anymore and fitness will be a natural part of your life. Setting realistic goals. I started off with a goal of 20lbs, thinking that ‘if I can get into the 150s, I’ll be off to a good start’. Then when I achieved that, I went for 10 more, etc. until I hit my ultimate goal. Pardon the pun, but bite-sized pieces are what you’re after here… all the little victories will add up in the end- but give yourself the benefit of winning along the way. Allowing myself to cheat every now and then. It sounds counter-intuitive but it’s true. No one wants to feel like they are depriving themselves constantly. As long as it doesn’t throw you off course, enjoy that glass of wine or that piece of chocolate cake.Rewarding myself. If I hit a goal, I’d reward myself with something fitness related. At first, it was a Fitbit, then it was new work-out clothing, or new shoes. I mean, who doesn’t like to look good when they’re working out? Celebrate successes with practical but fun things- not food. You’re not a puppy after all.

SHAWN: Have your physical achievements had an effect on other areas of your life?

NATALIE: As I’ve mentioned a few times, my circle has changed- for the better. I am surrounded now by like-minded individuals who understand the challenges and the benefits of a healthier lifestyle. I get contacted all of the time from complete strangers, from all walks of life- all over the world, looking for help along their own journey. It’s the most amazing thing. I’m a life coach and stress management coach but never thought I would see myself coaching people through physical transformations as well. So, I’ve discovered an entirely new and brilliantly fulfilling place in the universe. I’ve inadvertently inspired my family to follow suit. My oldest son is a senior in high school and is now weight training (in school and at home) and working on bulk. My mother works out every day- props to “Moms”- she’s 58 and can outrun most people I know and my middle son is just starting down his path. My littlest…(chuckle) she just likes to dance along with the cardio workouts I do. She says she wants to “exercise like Mommy”, gets her own bottle of water and headband and gets to it. It’s pretty meaningful to see the positive changes in my own house- and all of their own volition. Who knew!? My 4 year old is proof that it’s never too early to be a positive role model when it comes to health and fitness!I’ve come to terms with my disability. I’m aware of it, I am managing it (my core strength is nothing to balk at- and that helps!), it’s not managing me. That’s very empowering. I’m more confident now to more actively pursue my acting and modeling again. I won’t have to worry about being type-cast as the frumpy school mom (chuckle).

SHAWN: What is your next personal challenge?

NATALIE: I mentioned my middle son earlier. I have signed up to be his accountability partner in his own fitness journey and it is such an amazing bonding experience. Our goals are to help him lean out a little bit, develop better eating habits, as well as develop some agility and confidence as he prepares for high school. He played witness to my entire journey, the ups and the downs, so it means a lot that he looked to me to lock arms with him to do the same. Personally, I will be incorporating weight training now that my core is strong enough to support it to develop more lean muscle. More specifically, my arms and booty need some help (chuckle). Lastly, I want to continue to evangelize my story and avail myself to anyone that needs some encouragement or support.

SHAWN: Thank you for being so open, it’s been an honour and you’ve shared a ton of gems. How can people make contact if they want to learn more about your coaching services?

NATALIE: I can be found on Instagram @natalie_rostad, or Facebook at

Since beach season is upon us and like you probably do, I like to train hard during the winter but still like to look good when I hit the beach. So here are some little tips that can help make us beach worthy…

1. Weight Training

This should be hypertrophy and GH-based training to help volumize your muscles. Supersets work really well in this type of program. A 3 or 4 day split tends to work well for this, my favourite being: Chest & Biceps/Quads & Calves/Back & Hamstrings/Shoulders & Triceps

2. Cardio

Different cardio modalities seem to work for different people. Personally I have had the best results with early morning jogging. Some people swear by HIIT. Personally I tend to use that after leg training on an upright stationary bike as it not only burns fat but helps reduce cramping.

3. Diet

You want a moderate caloric deficit to burn fat and not muscle, with a re-feed day every 3-4 days. Eat protein with each meal, eat the majority of your daily carbs after exercising and drink lots of water to help keep hydrated and also help with organ function. Make sure to include healthy fats and vegetables.

4. Supplements

A greens supplement will work wonders as far as your overall body composition. Lately I have mixed some in with my post workout protein shake as well. Cortisol, insulin and estrogen are often culprits of fat so they can be addressed by such things as: Magnesium, Vitamin C, DIM, Calcium D-Glucarate, Chromium. Also to assist with your overall physique include some creating monohydrate.

5. Tan

For some people (myself included) this is easier said than done. Fortunately these days there are a few creative ways to get a nice glow without looking like an oompa loompa, so do some online research and I’m sure you will find a way to do it.

6. Sleep

Quality sleep will help with your overall vitality, bodily function and outward appearance, so do what you must to get not just quantity but quality sleep.

Give these a try and let me know your progress!